Prayers Asked & A Lesson To Learn

Prayers Asked 

& 

A Lesson The Lesson Of A Lifetime

by: Brendan Magee

You or a loved one is doubled over and can't breath. Your arms and legs are going numb and you have a history of high cholesterol. What do you do? Take your loved one or get someone to drive you to the hospital and get checked out. You don't wait. It's not a hard situation to figure out.

It's a situation that a friend of mine was personally dealing with recently. As he was asked several times if he was alright and did he want to go to the hospital, he always responded that he was fine. He was so fine that he just recently suffered cardiac arrest and is not in the best of circumstances right now. I ask you to keep him and his family in your prayers.

We all know the right thing to do under just about any circumstance so long as it is happening to some body else.Your chest is tight and heavy. "I don't want to go to the doctors and be hooked up to all those tubes. I don't want to die! It will probably go away in a few minutes."

Theory is so much different than reality. We can be way too quick to believe that under any and all circumstances we will be able to act rationally. This is true whether it be dating, our health, or our investments, but the reality is that we, are not. All you have to do is look at the presidential election. Do you really think rational thought has led us to the candidates we are most likely going to be choosing from?

When it comes to investing we already know what to do in order to be successful. Own equities, diversify, buy low/sell high. We have all heard these rules, especially buy low sell/high. They are not difficult to understand, but following them day-in-day out is not as easy as it sounds.

The British decide to leave the European Union and the stock market goes a bit hay wire. All the experts are on t.v. telling us the world will never be the same again. Everyone is in a panic and asking, " What should I do now?" You already have the answer, own equities, diversify, buy low/sell high. Why is their any confusion?

The answer is instincts and emotions. It's painful to think for one second your life savings is in jeopardy. You get scared that tomorrow you will be living on the street. You have to do something. Who cares about those damn rules. "We got to get out of the market! Sell every thing and put it in cash or a guaranteed annuity. Any body else and you give a calm "You got to keep the long-term in mind. The market always comes back. Don't panic response."

The lesson of a life time is that investing success or failure is a direct result of what the investor does or doesn't do/ What they allow and don't allow to be done with their money. This more than anything will determine an investors fate. Their decisions come from their brains which is where knowledge, instincts and emotions reside. If we can get that when it comes to investing our instincts and emotions cannot be separated from our thoughts or behaviors.

They will be leading the way in our decisions, and history shows that, repeatedly, those decisions will be wasteful.To guard ourselves from our instincts and emotions, starts with acknowledging that we, on our own, cannot protect ourselves from our instincts and emotions. We need to put that job in the hands of someone we trust and never deceive ourselves into believing we can do that job by ourselves.

Our coaches job and ours along with it will be managing a never ending flow of thoughts and ideas that  occur in a flash and on a 24 hour-7days a week -365 days of the year basis. We can only interrupt this pattern if we stop for a second and ask someone if our decisions and behaviors are consistent with our ultimate objectives. Once you do, you will hear and hopefully respond to answers like "No get yourself to the doctor now, not in two weeks. No we are not selling just because Jim Cramer told you the market was in a free fall"

Strength and wisdom are the result of acknowledging our lack of strength and wisdom. Your pride may sting a bit when you swallow it at first, but you and your family love the long-term results.

Brendan Magee is the founder and president of Inevitable Wealth Coaching. With questions or comments e-mail brendan@coachgee.com or call 610-446-4322.